Life feels turned upside down, and you’re in pain. I get it—it sucks. If you’ve been left behind in a relationship, the storm feels endless. But there’s a little strategy to get through it: think of it as the power of compounding, like a Systematic Investment Plan (SIP).
Here’s the deal: pick a small/atomic habit and stick to it. It could be working on your body, journaling gratitude, praying, picking up a new hobby—doesn’t matter what. Just choose something and commit. Will it feel fun? Probably not. Will it seem pointless sometimes? Definitely. But trust me, that’s how you work through the mess. Small, consistent investments in the right places add up over time. And by “right places,” I mean focusing on yourself—not looking for a new partner. You are the only stock worth betting on here.
With time, patience, and these daily deposits, you’ll see returns that amaze you—a version of yourself that’s stronger, healthier, and more aligned with who you truly are.
Does it suck? Yes. Will you like it? No. But the results will be worth it—far more than any quick fix. And don’t rely on friends for healing advice. That’s like asking your uncle for stock tips—it’s subjective, not objective. Get professional help, dig into what’s holding you back, and start investing in your own healing. Be consistent and disciplined.
Think of yourself as your own mutual fund. Invest in yourself, be consistent, and stick with it. The returns might take time, but they will come. While others wait for miracles, you’ll be building a stronger, healthier foundation.
And hey, if you find that unicorn partner along the way, congrats! But remember, investing in yourself is the real strategy. It’s the only one guaranteed to pay off 🙂
