Embrace Chaos of life & Grow
If your world has just collapsed and you’re drowning in darkness—welcome. You are not broken. You are being reforged. Believe it or not, it’s an opportunity to grow, learn, and rebuild a new you .I speak in the language of transformation—of furniture makeovers, of tearing things down and creating anew. The same applies to life. You do not return to what was. You craft something more powerful than before.. I hope it helps you see that leaning in can reveal the lessons we were meant to learn.
Some losses are final and definitive. A death. A separation. A sudden shift that takes something away for what you believed it to be. Others are more insidious. They don’t just take. They erase. Smudge , create self doubt making you wonder who you are. Grief doesn’t just bring pain. It brings a quiet destruction […]
When life spirals into chaos, many of us turn to God, hoping for answers, clarity, or maybe just a miracle. And what do we get? Guilt and shame, wrapped in religious bows, whispering: “Did I deserve this?”“Am I being punished?”“Why am I the only one failing at life?” Here’s the truth: God isn’t your nosy […]
Did you lose a loved one? Did your relationship just end? Did you just lose a job? Are you in emotional pain? – What a perfect stage for the performance of two birds! The twin lovebirds—Shame and Guilt—who love to sing enticingly, especially when things fall apart. It’s as though they’re celebrating! But there’s a […]
Loss and grief can feel overwhelming, leaving you stuck in a cycle of pain and self-blame. However, small, intentional actions can help you navigate the darkness and begin to rediscover your strength and joy. Here are five things you can do to start healing and reconnecting with yourself. 1. Reconnect with Your Passions When a […]
Pain of Break up Tons have been written about the feeling of being discarded after a breakup—like you’re a piece of crap. It is all true and then some. The pain is incredible. It can feel like all the effort, hopes, and dreams you invested in the relationship have been negated. Especially when you are the one […]
Sometimes in life, we find ourselves holding onto seemingly random, disjointed experiences—moments that don’t seem to fit, choices we weren’t prepared for, people who came and went, or jobs that felt like detours. It’s easy to feel lost in the chaos, as if the pieces don’t belong together. But when we step back, when we […]