If your life has just fallen apart and you are feeling dark and gloomy, welcome to the club! Believe it or not, it’s an opportunity to grow, learn, and rebuild a new you. I use the metaphor of furniture makeovers, rebuilding anew, accepting the mess and working with what we have in my posts. I hope it helps you see that while it may look disastrous now, leaning in can reveal the lessons we were meant to learn.